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| µoªíªÌ: Pearltea Jul 27 2017, 04:22 |
| Saw this article being shared on FB. http://stealjobs.com/%E4%B8%AD%E7%92%B0%E4%BA%BA%E7%9A%84%E3%80%8C%E9%84%99%E8%A6%96%E9%8F%88%E3%80%8D-%E5%AE%8C%E5%85%A8%E7%89%88/ TL;DR: ¥un¦b¤¤Àô°µ¹L´X¦~¡A´N¥i¯à¿Ë¨¸g¾ú¹L¡u¤¤Àô¦¡¶Õ§Q²´¡v¡G ¤@Ó·s»{ÃѪº¤H¡A°ò©ó§Aªº¤u§@¡A¤j¾Ç¡A¤¤¾Ç¡A»y¨¥¯à¤O¡A©~¦í°Ï°ìµ¥µ¥±ø¥ó¡A´N¤w¸g·t¤¤½Lºâ¤F¦P§A°µªB¤Íªº¡u»ùÈ¡v¡G°µ iBank¬J¡A«Â¹L°µ´¶³q»È¦æ¡CŪHKUªº¡A·t¦Ûı±o¦Û¤v¿ô¹L¤¤¤j¡A¬Æ¦Üø·Q¦P«D¤T¤j¤H²`¥æ¡C SJ¤µ¦¸´N·jù¥ª¤@°ï¤¤Àô¤H±`¨£ûH¤¤Àô¦¡¶Õ§Q²´¡u»ÀµøÃì¡v¡A ±N¦UÓ½dÃ¥ªº¤¤Àô¤H¹ï¦U±ø¥óªº´¶¹MStereotype §¹¾ã¦C®Í¥X嚟¡C --------------------- Didn't think of posting the article here since the entire thing is garbage and obnoxious. WTH is ¡u»ÀµøÃì¡v? Maybe I'm being a little ignorant and out of loop life in HK, but do people really analyze an acquaintance in such detailed way? Or the author had nothing better to do in life and tried to decide which group of people reigns supreme? I would think if someone actually calculates the potential value of friendship like this and puts down others in order to feel good about him/herself, then this person vent over. |
| µoªíªÌ: willyho Jul 27 2017, 11:48 |
| I never knew my Australian citizenship has such a high market value |
| µoªíªÌ: neveryield Jul 27 2017, 18:08 |
| It's like ´X¦~ago ªºgoogle docs, well, what wasss dat? ¶Ì¥Jµü·J? Forgeted Ópo ¥h¥ª where's. |
| µoªíªÌ: Caesar Jul 28 2017, 08:52 |
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| µoªíªÌ: ªüåÈ Jul 30 2017, 06:27 |
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| µoªíªÌ: Pearltea Jul 31 2017, 04:18 | ||
Yeah, I guess if you take this as a joke. I don't doubt that there are folks who make comparisons in each category, but these so called 'unspoken pecking orders' are super annoying. I don't give a rat's *** whether someone has a high-paying job, works at a prominent bank or BigLaw firm, or graduated from an Ivy League. As long as the person is decent and kind, I'd like to befriend him/her. Frankly, I wonder what is the profile of people who make comparisons like these? Do they want to be associated with the 'better' groups and hope that one day they'll be one of the members by networking? Or are they trying to keep up with the Joneses? |
| µoªíªÌ: willyho Jul 31 2017, 12:30 | ||||
The "fake it till you make it" mentality. As you said it yourself, to associate oneself with a "better" group in order to be seen as one of its members. This contributes to the (false) belief that one is part of said "better" group. The fact that it is not true that one is a member of group leads to cognitive dissonance. This in turn forces one to "push the act" further, in order to maintain the false belief. The joke is of course the group members are likely to implicitly know who's the phony, even if not made explicit. |
| µoªíªÌ: neveryield Aug 1 2017, 01:22 |
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